I would have no time for you if you have the urge to ask me anything in regards to transsexuals... so I would leave it to a prominent dear advocate from the US....
"Bad Questions - Questions Never To Ask A Transsexual Person" by Calpernia Addams.
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Yes, it is a her you dumb (beep)!